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How to Meet People in Los Angeles

Tips For Meeting People in LA Whether You're Single or Looking For New Friends


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“It’s hard to meet people in LA.” I hear this complaint quite often. Our city is not like other metro areas which are smaller centralized, street-life oriented, and possess strong public transportation systems. There are many towns within this metropolis. And of course there is a tendency for people to socially isolate by only connecting with friends in their respective career industry. So, meeting new people in LA takes a bit of pro-activity. This article--whose contents come from my experiences and those of friends--should give you some valuable insight into how to meet people in Los Angeles.

Dog Parks and Trails

Every guy in town knows that hitting the dog parks and trails is a great way to pick up girls. This was of course immortalized in an episode of HBO's Entourage. Since one of the key social barricades is ‘the opener,’ heading to pet-friendly public spots really helps. Your dogs provide the fodder for conversation--unless of course they trot up to the wrong guy or girl. “Bad dog, bad dog!”

Dog Walking in LA's East Side

Hiking Trails and Tracks

LA’s trails are not limited to dog walks of course. Plenty of joggers and hiking aficionados have made friends by getting out there and hitting the trails. This is a great sober (non-bar) daytime activity that can put you in contact in the right way with new people.

Runyon Canyon in W. Hollywood, for instance, is quite popular and even boasts weekend outdoor yoga classes. But don’t run the entire time. Remember to stop and take a break. Between breaths you might just strike up that conversation that launches the beginning of a beautiful friendship.

Best Hiking Trails in Los Angeles

Bookstores and Author Events

I personally met a good friend of mine in a bookstore. We were both browsing in the same obscure section and got to talking about the topic at hand. These spots have built-in, natural topic starters throughout their shelves! There are bookstores for every type of person and mood--from independent book shops to larger booksellers like Barnes & Noble--all great for a meeting of the minds.

If you’re still feeling shy about bringing up that latest political biography or searching for an ‘in’ in the ‘self-help’ section, try an author event. It is common for group and individual discussions to ensue during and after readings and signings (so stick around afterwards as well). I met another great friend of mine at a reading at Book Soup in W. Hollywood. Make sure to choose a reading that reflects your interests, of course, and your chances of a long friendship will be greater.

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Coffee Shops

This is the way I have made most of my friends in my adult life (beyond work). Find a coffee place whose character you like and frequent it. After a while you will see the same faces and likely exchange hellos, and so the contact begins.

Of course you’ll never meet anyone if you sit in the ‘laptop ghetto’ with your face glued to the screen. I have found that people reading magazines at coffee places are more often approached (again, it’s a case of common interests) than iPhone or Blackberry addicts. The latter tech devices makes you look inaccessible.

A lot of times conversations at coffee spots are struck up in the most mundane of ways: at the sugar and cream station or waiting in line. It doesn’t matter how the conversation starts. The point is to be open, look open and be bold as well.

Top Coffee Spots in West Hollywood

Sports and Sports Teams and Clubs

Even my mother--a long-time Angeleno--has made new friends here by joining local golf groups. Weekly activities are especially great for getting to know new people. I’ve also been approached by new people solo at the driving range--but that’s probably another (lone female) story. Many public parks host group tennis lessons or small groups or leagues. This is a great way to get exercise and meet new people.

The same goes for sports like baseball, basketball and swimming. One friend of mine takes her little daughter to a weekly morning swimming class and meets other moms that way.

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Sports Bars and Pubs

Bars are generally left off this list because it's an obvious way that people meet (especially when single), and many people don't feel comfortable going to bars. And often, it's easier to really get to know someone when sober.

However, I've added sports pubs and bars to this list because they are generally more laid-back and 'neighborhoody' than regular bars. Most importantly, they have a central focal point--pool, darts, karaoke--that makes it a lot easier to strike up a conversation. Even the shyest person can usually muster up enough courage to ask to join someone in a game of foosball.

Best Irish Pubs in Los Angeles

Classes and Continued Education

This is a pretty common way to meet people--and a great way to boost your knowledge base (personally or for your career). You can take classes at UCLA Extension, at Santa Monica Community College, LACC and so on. Often, local high schools like Beverly Hills High School also offer classes for adults on the weekends.

My father, no spring chicken, met lots of new people when he took a voiceover class--and he got some great tracks for a reel as well. Again, make sure to choose something you are really passionate about or interested in and you will have plenty to talk about with your new friends. This can be anything from an academic subject or a technical skill to a sport or art form.

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